Gay butt eating

As we sex educators say, ‘don't yuck someone else's yum.'

Manta explains there are several options for the pre-rimming cleaning process, depending on how important it is to you. Steer clear of teeth unless your partner specifically asks for their use.

Be mindful of health and safety

Yes, you can catch STIs through rimming, and rimming sans protection is indeed unsafe sex.

Use a dental dam if you and your partner haven’t had recent sexual health checks, or the idea of putting your tongue on a place from which poo comes out makes you feel a tad squeamish.

Don’t move from butt to vagina (that’s an easy way to get an infection), only vagina to butt.

Relax, enjoy it, and don’t get freaked out by your reaction

It’s perfectly okay to enjoy anal stimulation.

Speaking to sex experts, we’re here to explain that rimming is actually for anyone with a butt or a tongue, and walk you through getting started and unlocking a new kind of sexual pleasure.

“You’ve got some options there: a dental dam is one of them. It hurts. You’ve probably heard a lot of names for analingus (its official name).

As we sex educators say, ‘don't yuck someone else's yum.'" 

There’s also plenty of preparation partners can do before getting started with rimming to make sure everyone’s clean, and avoid mishaps.

That doesn’t make you a vanilla prude.

It’s also okay if you’re keen on receiving but not giving, or vice versa, as long as your partner is okay with that arrangement too.

Sex is all about exploration and experimentation.

"Use things that are designed for anal pleasure, like vibrating butt plugs, anal beads, or a prostate stimulating massager," Manta says.

"On the more involved side, there's anal douching. So how do you feel about tossing salad? Check that your partner’s up for it beforehand (so that you know they’re into it and they’ve been able to prep), then do your standard oral stuff, work down to start licking the perineum, then slowly tease the rim.

It’s perfectly okay if you just want to hang out in the perineum area for a while.

Back to that point, that it’s like the new eating pussy. There’s growing peer pressure to get in on Ass Eating SZN, but what if it’s just not your thing? Is the receiver going to remove hair or shower or douche etc? Sexuality educator and coach Ashley Manta says having a conversation (clothed and in advance of entering the bedroom) will help set you up for success.

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