Gay sex positions.

Some people identify with that label, only ever bottom and would rather eat glass than top. Going straight to penetration without any foreplay can be painful! Up until then, and even after the law was finally overturned in 2018, Indian culture and works such as the Kama Sutra embraced the concept of non-binary sexuality.

That being said, the Kama Sutra has gotten a bad reputation from its poor initial translation favoring sections that an 1800’s western tabloid audience would find “scandalous” or “exotic”, and conveniently forgot the parts about humanizing women and homosexuals.

You can amplify this domination play by tying your “top” with Shibari Rope or Bedspreaders to really “ride home” the role reversal. That’s ok.

Sex should be fun and pleasurable for everyone involved. If you’re using hands, your partner can start with one finger before moving up to two.

It just means you went too quickly and need more lube and/or foreplay. In other words, feeling comfortable and safe with a partner can help improve things.
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If the pain is short-lived (as in, it goes away after your partner pulls out) then it’s probably ok. Have you ever heard of that? Especially if you’re having a date night in and you’ve built a fort.

Congress of a Crow

The number that makes everyone go “nice”. Stretching would be a really good idea here.

8. Each of them should hold hands after slipping their arms under each other’s knees.

This move requires some serious flexibility and a lot of heart. From here, partner B can penetrate partner A.

The other way to get into this position is for Partner B to enter Partner A and have Partner A lean back into the position.

It will spice up your bed moment.

Types of lube that stay “slicker” (i.e. First, stack some of your firmest pillows so that you can both comfortably lean on them without toppling. Fibre, anal training and techniques like douching can all play a part. It’s also to everyone’s advantage if Partner A arches their back.

This position can be medium to difficult depending on your build and stamina.

For those looking for a more adventurous sex position, the scissor sex position can be a superb choice.

However, for you to enjoy maximum satisfaction during any sexual act, may it be oral sex or anal sex with your partner, communication is essential. Like stone tops, stone bottoms are strict with their boundaries when it comes to caressing their partners and prefer not to be the one performing oral sex or penetrating them.

In gay relationships, both top and bottom partners may engage in penetrative and receptive sexual acts.

It offers an incredibly pleasurable experience for the bottom, providing an intimate connection with the partner and an intense sensation of fullness.

During this position, the bottom goes down on his four, with his behinds facing the top's penis, who kneels behind him, ready to penetrate him anally.

The bottom will experience deep penetration, with the top controlling the speed and intensity of the thrusts.

If it’s not, then you shouldn’t force it. No matter how you identify, we’re here to help you on your bottoming journey.

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Preparing to bottom

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Successful bottoming doesn’t start in the bedroom. This position involves both parties standing with the “bottom” in an “almost cartwheel” pose as the “top” penetrates them from a standing position with one leg on the ground and the other leg on the “bottom’s” shoulder.

This position is truly a test to the athletic abilities of both involved, but also allows for both top and bottom to exert thrust on one another with the “bottom” pushing their body with their arms toward the top, and the “top” bearing down on the “bottom” for the deepest possible penetration.

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The one being penetrated will lean back with their legs bent, but they will be outside of their partner’s legs.